10-06-2012, 11:11 PM
Hello A.J. and 
to GaySpeak. Indeed sexuality can be quite a fluctuating business, especially when we are younger and still searching for answers and looking for that special connection. It could be with the same sex or the opposite sex. It depends on who will make your boat rock, to some extent. You don't have to label yourself until you find the need to assert that you are more this way than that way. Maybe you'll never want to label your sexual orientation, and that ought to be fine, but maybe some people will find it confusing, and wonder what to expect of you. Still, if you're open, it shouldn't be a problem either. What annoys people the most, I believe, is lies and deceit, and feeling let down. None of this needs to happen if you are true to yourself.
Take care, and learn some more.
PA
to GaySpeak. Indeed sexuality can be quite a fluctuating business, especially when we are younger and still searching for answers and looking for that special connection. It could be with the same sex or the opposite sex. It depends on who will make your boat rock, to some extent. You don't have to label yourself until you find the need to assert that you are more this way than that way. Maybe you'll never want to label your sexual orientation, and that ought to be fine, but maybe some people will find it confusing, and wonder what to expect of you. Still, if you're open, it shouldn't be a problem either. What annoys people the most, I believe, is lies and deceit, and feeling let down. None of this needs to happen if you are true to yourself. Take care, and learn some more.
PA
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