10-10-2012, 05:05 PM
ElfiexElfSeeker Wrote:Maybe I'm not fully out to myself...I think that is true. I thought I knew my sexual identity, but the other day I saw a man who I felt immediately attracted to and felt the urge to talk to him. I didn't. I'm not that confident, but if I like women why do I feel this way for a man? I'm kind of scratching my head and wondering if I really AM bisexual after all.
You know, gender and sex doesn't matter. You should fall in love with a person, a Human Being, whatever gender or sex they are. Maybe I am more pansexual. Maybe I couldn't have sex with my ex-bf because he just wasn't the one. Maybe it had nothing to do with my sexual identity. I didn't find him all that attractive. I think that was another factor in my decision to call it off.
Bright Blessings,
Elfie
I like this..........makes sense in a round about way to me...........
There is no rush for you Elfie......enjoy life and don't get hung up about your sexual orientation............just go with the flow and enjoy.
You are bright and you will be okay.......... I just know it.
take care
LL x