10-08-2012, 11:51 PM
I'm sorry, did I read write, this guy abused you and you are inviting him to hang around?
What the f**k is wrong with YOU???
Drop this guy (preferably at the deep end of Lake Mead - not too close to the dam, don't want to break the turbines).
Don't let him to sniff around, don't give him hope for a future. Don't try to be his friend - he doesn't want you as a friend, he wants you as a person to control and use as a punching bag.
You are doing the typical victim routine, allowing the abuser to come back and abuse you over and over and over again. Stop it. You are better than that.
Open relationships when you are hardwired for monogamy DO NOT work. Ever.
Get rid of this guy as soon as you can, find a real man who will love you, care for you and treat you like the person you really are. They exist, its hard to find them.
As for seeing an ex on a porn site... Well that tells you the class of person you are dealing with now doesn't it?
What the f**k is wrong with YOU???
Drop this guy (preferably at the deep end of Lake Mead - not too close to the dam, don't want to break the turbines).
Don't let him to sniff around, don't give him hope for a future. Don't try to be his friend - he doesn't want you as a friend, he wants you as a person to control and use as a punching bag.
You are doing the typical victim routine, allowing the abuser to come back and abuse you over and over and over again. Stop it. You are better than that.
Open relationships when you are hardwired for monogamy DO NOT work. Ever.
Get rid of this guy as soon as you can, find a real man who will love you, care for you and treat you like the person you really are. They exist, its hard to find them.
As for seeing an ex on a porn site... Well that tells you the class of person you are dealing with now doesn't it?