I need your help with something

[Blue]

Hold on, you say just friend with benefits? And you think he can dump you. To me it takes more thay that to making being dumped possible. Okay you stop having sex, maybe even stop being fiends, but that isn't being dumped.

So is it friend or something more?

It is selfish, natural but selfish and, maybe you need to examine why you need them? What is it that you don't like about you? What void are you filling with having them seem to need you?

Sort that out and, when you don't actually need to be needed, go find someone. Sure it feels good to be needed but, it's lousy to need to be needed. That sets you up for all sorts of heartache and, on a path of broken relationships.

Work on loving you and being okay alone first, you'll be glad you did in the long run.