10-13-2012, 06:36 PM
15 years is a big deal. You have sorted through your early life, he is sorting through his. Your goals are 15 years ahead of his... All of this college, career and other 'stuff' does have a huge impact on relationships.
He is trying to balance out education and work with a relationship - its isn't easy and he appears to see that he is stealing time from you to do the right thing with his life.
For a 19 year old, he seems to be a bit more mature than his age would suggest. He set it all out for you and made it clear where he is, how he feels and how he thinks you both should progress.
Its not like he decided to just dump you and you discovered him in a bed with someone else. He is trying to do the right thing, which if he is in college and preparing for his adult life and career, 'breaking up' and focusing on school and this sort of stuff may very well be the right choice.
Right doesn't always mean less painful.
He is trying to balance out education and work with a relationship - its isn't easy and he appears to see that he is stealing time from you to do the right thing with his life.
For a 19 year old, he seems to be a bit more mature than his age would suggest. He set it all out for you and made it clear where he is, how he feels and how he thinks you both should progress.
Its not like he decided to just dump you and you discovered him in a bed with someone else. He is trying to do the right thing, which if he is in college and preparing for his adult life and career, 'breaking up' and focusing on school and this sort of stuff may very well be the right choice.
Right doesn't always mean less painful.
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