10-15-2012, 01:30 AM
Communications make relationships go. There is no 'too early' when it comes to starting up a line of communication.
Setting a time say once a week where for an hour or so you two sit down face to face, turn off the devices and really talk to one another with the understanding that whatever is said is not going to be used as a weapon or its not 'fight time' will help you two develop a better relationship then letting communication just happen - if it happens at all.
As for when you are BF's that is something you two need to discuss and decide on. 'Where are we now?' is not a bad question to ask from time to time to get an idea where each other feels you as a couple are.
This coy 'wait for the other' to say something usually plants the first seeds of resentment. Resentments grow into huge man eating weeds and devour whole relationships whole.... We don't want that do we? :tongue:
Setting a time say once a week where for an hour or so you two sit down face to face, turn off the devices and really talk to one another with the understanding that whatever is said is not going to be used as a weapon or its not 'fight time' will help you two develop a better relationship then letting communication just happen - if it happens at all.
As for when you are BF's that is something you two need to discuss and decide on. 'Where are we now?' is not a bad question to ask from time to time to get an idea where each other feels you as a couple are.
This coy 'wait for the other' to say something usually plants the first seeds of resentment. Resentments grow into huge man eating weeds and devour whole relationships whole.... We don't want that do we? :tongue:
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