10-15-2012, 05:52 PM
Kick him to the curb.
I just came out of a long term relationship (14 years) where I discovered that during the past 12 of those years my partner had been having random hook-ups and lots of other stuff while lying to me all the time saying we were monogamous and committed.
He also lied about how long he was working, when he was looking for a new job, job interviews which were really excuses to go hook up. Lie heaped upon lie.
Your relationship is only 4 months old. If he is willing to give up on monogamy this early in the game, I would hate to think what he would do 1 year, 5 years, 10 years down the road.
This sort of situation rarely ends well.
Sorry.
I just came out of a long term relationship (14 years) where I discovered that during the past 12 of those years my partner had been having random hook-ups and lots of other stuff while lying to me all the time saying we were monogamous and committed.
He also lied about how long he was working, when he was looking for a new job, job interviews which were really excuses to go hook up. Lie heaped upon lie.
Your relationship is only 4 months old. If he is willing to give up on monogamy this early in the game, I would hate to think what he would do 1 year, 5 years, 10 years down the road.
This sort of situation rarely ends well.
Sorry.
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