Relationship with a masseur

[Marc]

Its a tough question this.
There are so many bits of information you have left out.
Like you say you give him money, what for?
A general massage, sex?

If he is a genuine masseuse, then that is a legitimate job, that many people do, and is completely innocent.
How ever, if it involves sex, then legally and morally you have to wonder if you could ever trust this person, let alone have a happy, honest relationship with him.

Relationships are based on trust and give 'n' take.
If he is a legitimate massage therapist, then you have no right to ask him to give up the job he has trained and worked for, however if he is using it as a pretence for prostitution, then you have every right to say its Me or the Job.

I personally think you should walk away before you get any deeper involved and get hurt.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but this sounds to me like he has sucked you in and got you where he wants you.

We have all fallen for the wrong person, don't blame yourself, move on and find a guy who can be honest and love you unconditionaly. You will find 1.

xxxxxx