10-23-2012, 10:02 AM
Have you figured out what you did to help the last relationship fail?
Are you still holding a grudge with the last partner?
Can you go the whole day and not be reminded of the last partner and feel 'upset' or 'bad'?
These are usually clues that you have worked through whatever was wrong in the last relationship and have reached the doorway to move beyond the other, or you have.
I have found that about a year (12 months) is about the time I am 'over' a person and able to actually commit to a new person without talking about the a$$hole I just left.... :biggrin:
Are you still holding a grudge with the last partner?
Can you go the whole day and not be reminded of the last partner and feel 'upset' or 'bad'?
These are usually clues that you have worked through whatever was wrong in the last relationship and have reached the doorway to move beyond the other, or you have.
I have found that about a year (12 months) is about the time I am 'over' a person and able to actually commit to a new person without talking about the a$$hole I just left.... :biggrin:
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