10-24-2012, 06:10 PM
Don't ignore your gut feeling on this - chances are you are right. I know - OUCH! But I've both seen other pay and paid the price myself for ignoring such things.
Ignore it now and, you are setting yourself up for a nasty downward spiral, the longer it goes on, the worse it gets. Either push for the truth, or assume you are right and do what you have to do.
Maybe couples counseling would help, if he's willing to give it a try. You don't give enough information for me to know if other issues might be going on with him but, based on the little you have given, elsewhere is a high probability.
Ignore it now and, you are setting yourself up for a nasty downward spiral, the longer it goes on, the worse it gets. Either push for the truth, or assume you are right and do what you have to do.
Maybe couples counseling would help, if he's willing to give it a try. You don't give enough information for me to know if other issues might be going on with him but, based on the little you have given, elsewhere is a high probability.