10-25-2012, 10:10 PM
I would have been more inclined to deal with it myself rather than go to management at this point in time.
I don't think his intent was maliscious, there are men out there that believe 'Being gay means being a sex addicted slut', he seems to be one of them. So far he has asked once, you have said no and there have been no further advances.
He may be hanging around simply because you have been a friend for so long and because maybe he hasn't truely reconciled with his own sexuality, he just feels that he has someone to identify with.
I think because you have gone to management, instead of 1 elephant in the room, you will now have 2 elephants in the room unfortunately.
I don't think his intent was maliscious, there are men out there that believe 'Being gay means being a sex addicted slut', he seems to be one of them. So far he has asked once, you have said no and there have been no further advances.
He may be hanging around simply because you have been a friend for so long and because maybe he hasn't truely reconciled with his own sexuality, he just feels that he has someone to identify with.
I think because you have gone to management, instead of 1 elephant in the room, you will now have 2 elephants in the room unfortunately.