11-19-2007, 11:38 AM
I think one of the key things is to prepare yourself for as many possible outcomes as are plausible ... even if he is, he might deny it, so if you DO ask, gauge his physical response as much as anything else ...
Asking is the black-and-white simple way of dealing with the situation, granted ... but I always find it to be a bit TOO direct ... why not start chatting with him - begin with inocuous topics like the weather, the fact that the bus is always running so slow, and work your way up from there ... in this fashion, you'll be able to gauge how receptive he is to your company as another male. If he's stand-offish, or aloof, then that says something; if he's open and inviting of your company, that says something else ...
OR you could just walk up to him, undo your pants and say "SUCK IT" and see whether he takes the hint ... .
Ho-hum ... .
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!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
Asking is the black-and-white simple way of dealing with the situation, granted ... but I always find it to be a bit TOO direct ... why not start chatting with him - begin with inocuous topics like the weather, the fact that the bus is always running so slow, and work your way up from there ... in this fashion, you'll be able to gauge how receptive he is to your company as another male. If he's stand-offish, or aloof, then that says something; if he's open and inviting of your company, that says something else ...
OR you could just walk up to him, undo your pants and say "SUCK IT" and see whether he takes the hint ... .
Ho-hum ... .
xx
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!