05-09-2013, 02:13 AM
LONDONER Wrote:Hi MisterTinkles: Legitimate question. One of the reasons is my age. I simply just don't function as when I did 20 years ago. It's something that one just has to acccept when age creeps up on you. I've tried bottoming but it just doesn't work for me and topping becomes more and more difficult even with the aid of Cialis. My condition wasn't aided by a stupid surgeon who three years ago, attempting to remove a kidney stone, succeeded in pushing it right to the bottom of my kidney and left me bleeding profusely. I'm not sure if it has been a physical manifestation or psychological, whatever, it has had a profound effect on me.
Ouch!!! What a crackpot some Dr.s are. Ive recently had to change doctors because my last one had evil bitches in his billing department...they kept trying to extort money out of me when the Dr. told me "no charge". So I turned them into the state and now I have to find another Dr.
I would think wisdom and realization is a better reason for "no sex"..... LOL.
I understand though. Its difficult having a 17 year old mind in an old mans body sometimes. For me anyway. Ive never been too keen on sex anyway. I prefer mental stimulation and hugging. A good constructive argument and some huggin and kissin suits me just fine.