09-06-2013, 04:30 AM
Hang in there Unknown. Remember your thoughts are just your thoughts. They can be pretty damn convincing, but that doesn't make them true.
I know it doesn't mean much to hear "you're young, be patient." Just know that many of us here were late bloomers in love, sex, and relationships. I wondered about living a lonely life sometimes when I was your age. My first relationships weren't until my mid 20's.
You said you have your dream job, but have you ever thought of getting out of Kansas? Not the most progressive state. A move like that is a big change, but may be just what you need. That's for you to figure out. In any case be more social, try to stop drinking alone, and you never know what might happen!
I know it doesn't mean much to hear "you're young, be patient." Just know that many of us here were late bloomers in love, sex, and relationships. I wondered about living a lonely life sometimes when I was your age. My first relationships weren't until my mid 20's.
You said you have your dream job, but have you ever thought of getting out of Kansas? Not the most progressive state. A move like that is a big change, but may be just what you need. That's for you to figure out. In any case be more social, try to stop drinking alone, and you never know what might happen!
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