Dating again after a breakup

[southbiochem]

First, you need to go out there only if your fully healed or as close as it gets..the fear of getting your heart broken again will undermine your efforts if you dont't.

comparing new guys with the last one will constantly undermine you efforts too..

Are you sure you have let the last one go?

If he's still has this kind of power over you, you will sabotage all attempts in finding a new relationship, cause no one will compare to him...

and they should't..all men are different..

So, study if you are ready. If you are, then go out there and meet...

yes, it's hell, but if you are patient and persistent, another guy will come soon enough.

Yes, relationships are hard work, but more often than not, they are worth the effort.

You don't have to settle just to not be alone, you have the example of your friends as to what not to do.

Overall don't let what happened to you last time prevent you from putting yourself out there