01-14-2014, 08:15 PM
I agree completely with southbiochem
The scariest thing to do sometimes is to let go of a hurtful past and open yourself completely to the possibility of something new. It seems as if you are still harboring a lot of those hurt feelings. That behaviour is quite normal, but it will inhibit your chances of moving forward.
I understand that it's scary to allow yourself to feel vulnerable again, but really try to make peace with the past so that you can focus on the here and now. Know what you are worth and know what you bring to a relationship. It's a quick way to turn that dull spark into a blazing wildfire again.
Hang in there.
The scariest thing to do sometimes is to let go of a hurtful past and open yourself completely to the possibility of something new. It seems as if you are still harboring a lot of those hurt feelings. That behaviour is quite normal, but it will inhibit your chances of moving forward.
I understand that it's scary to allow yourself to feel vulnerable again, but really try to make peace with the past so that you can focus on the here and now. Know what you are worth and know what you bring to a relationship. It's a quick way to turn that dull spark into a blazing wildfire again.
Hang in there.