Dating again after a breakup

[southbiochem]

It's understandable to have the reticence you show towards finding a new one, given how things ended last time. Motivation is a bit hard to find after that.

Most likely you will fear (with good reason) to be crushed again.

You cannot let yourself to be overcome by this...it's hard but keep in mind: someone out there will appreciate everything you have to offer.

Start slow, groom yourself, go out...to a bookstore, to get coffee, on your own...do things that you're comfortable with first.

then invite friends, accustome yourself to be in the "outside world" seeing the people around..

then you start looking for that someone.

(If I may say so, given how handsome you are, it won't be all that hard to get guys to aproach you, and then study them, until you get to meet "him")

best of lucks