01-15-2014, 10:46 AM
From personal experience I think the first thing you have to do is regain some confidence in yourself as a person and what you have to offer as a partner.
When a breakup happens, and there is no clear reason or closure, its very easy to become withdrawn and blame yourself for whats happened, which can have a major impact on your self confidence.
The one thing you do need to do is get yourself back "out there" If your not out socialising, at least once a week then the opportunity to meet someone new is much reduced. Don't make the mistake of thinking you will find Mr Right online. Its my opinion that your more than likely to find Mr Right Now online, who is only interested in a quick one-off.
Also, don't be afraid to date and say no. You need to kiss a few frogs before you find Prince Charming ;-)
Good Luck,
ObW
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When a breakup happens, and there is no clear reason or closure, its very easy to become withdrawn and blame yourself for whats happened, which can have a major impact on your self confidence.
The one thing you do need to do is get yourself back "out there" If your not out socialising, at least once a week then the opportunity to meet someone new is much reduced. Don't make the mistake of thinking you will find Mr Right online. Its my opinion that your more than likely to find Mr Right Now online, who is only interested in a quick one-off.
Also, don't be afraid to date and say no. You need to kiss a few frogs before you find Prince Charming ;-)
Good Luck,
ObW
X
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