out of the blue

[southbiochem]

Ok, no. I haven't done anything of the sort, but I will try to go for it:

within my perception, 2 requirements have to be fulfilled, followed by 2 adviced:

1.- He is comfortable about it: he suggested it, so we know he is

2.- You have to be comfortable and OK with it..

3.- It would be better IMO to invite someone familiar to you (as you would be having the action), just to make sure it's safe, if it's really a stranger he wants I don't really know how you offer that to someone, but I bet more than one guy will be up for it...

4.- the obvious...use protection, seeming how we are talking about a stranger

so there...hope it helps a bit....