01-15-2014, 04:45 PM
While the idea is hot and erotic, I think it practice it can be a lot more complicated and messy.
Monogamy is a tricky thing, for those who apply it or desire it or place importance on it, when it gets broken (even if both parties are willing), it can become a major issue for the couple.
Talking about it and fantasizing about it is one thing, doing it is a totally different thing. I would strongly suggest approaching the subject when sober, and trying to remove as much of the lust/pleasure/erotic aspects out of it and seriously consider what it means to 'us' as a couple such as how jealous either and or both of you are, how likely it is that you will fall for another guy if he is good in bed.
Monogamy is a tricky thing, for those who apply it or desire it or place importance on it, when it gets broken (even if both parties are willing), it can become a major issue for the couple.
Talking about it and fantasizing about it is one thing, doing it is a totally different thing. I would strongly suggest approaching the subject when sober, and trying to remove as much of the lust/pleasure/erotic aspects out of it and seriously consider what it means to 'us' as a couple such as how jealous either and or both of you are, how likely it is that you will fall for another guy if he is good in bed.