01-16-2014, 09:10 AM
Oh I know what you mean.
It's tough work keeping a conversation alive. But to be honest, people connect with certain people, and as much as people like to think that people have 'soulmates' and people who just spiritually click, the fact is, if you don't have anything in common interest, the conversation will be bo-ring.
Nobody is 'boring', we just all have different fields of interest.
I see people's eyes glaze over when I talk to them, and so I just never talk to them.
Other people are different. It just all depends.
If I could give you any advice... it would be to, when in conversations, talk in vague, all encompassing terms, and ideas. Never get into specific things: I hate people who start rambling on about one specific movie/book/tvshow/game that they love because it immediately kills the mood of conversation. The key to conversation is usually to focus equally on yourself and the other person.
And you're BY NO MEANS boring
I think you make some of the most interesting posts.
It's tough work keeping a conversation alive. But to be honest, people connect with certain people, and as much as people like to think that people have 'soulmates' and people who just spiritually click, the fact is, if you don't have anything in common interest, the conversation will be bo-ring.
Nobody is 'boring', we just all have different fields of interest.
I see people's eyes glaze over when I talk to them, and so I just never talk to them.
Other people are different. It just all depends.
If I could give you any advice... it would be to, when in conversations, talk in vague, all encompassing terms, and ideas. Never get into specific things: I hate people who start rambling on about one specific movie/book/tvshow/game that they love because it immediately kills the mood of conversation. The key to conversation is usually to focus equally on yourself and the other person.
And you're BY NO MEANS boring
I think you make some of the most interesting posts.
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