Help me relax...

[southbiochem]

1. Is it to soon to ask if we should stop seeing/talking to other people? I know I've already started NOT talking to other people. I wasn't planning on having this conversation right away, but I was going to give it a few more weeks. I know if he were to ask me; I'd say it was fine and I would be concentrate solely on our relationship.

I don't know about asking, but you can throw it in there sometime..you can tell him "I am not seeing other people because I'm really interested in you" and then see what he has to say about it, that way you woulñdn't be asking anything which I bet is les awkward

2. Taking it slow - does this mean we should just continue what we're doing? Thats fine, but for how long? Someone told me that I should wait six months... that seems like an enternity.
I know I'm definitely interested, but after having the first talk about what we're "doing", I don't want to bring anything "serious" up to soon.

You both need to be in the same place. Usually, I think, nevermind the amount of time, there is a point where you both know it's right..although if you ask me, meeting his friends like this is a pretty good sign of how serious he is about you.

keep dating him, see each other more, you can say to him "I really like you" every now and then, study how he replies or acts about that. This won't go indefinitely, I assure you, at some point, you'll be closer I bet

3. Do things seem to be headed in the right direction? What about the speed? We're just entering our third month of actually going out on dates.

3 months is a good amount of time, you are definitely not going to fast and neither is he..

you can up the game from here, see him more..

I think you 2 are going definitely in the right direction as you are both pretty conscious of time and your needs, it would seem