Is my best friend really my friend?

[Bluelight]

She is insecure and sometimes we want what we think we can't have.

She has behaved badly here but this is one incident and how easy it is for us to remember the negatives and forget the positives!

This incident aside could you give us any examples of how she might have been a friend to you before she is condemned?

Truth is, I'm hesitant to really complain about her because we have had many sincere moments where she has been a good listener, and I've always been a listener for her as well,, but sometimes she just says little things that suggest to me that she is kind of insecure. I mean, she did admit to me a while back that she was kind of attracted to me, but now she makes a point of saying that I appear substantially less attractive to her because I'm gay. I don't know... this is kind of giving me a headache.

I still want to be her friend, but now I know that I should be more cautious now about how I go about our friendship. It's easy to forget that you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket you know?