You all may not like Me, & that's okay!

[TonyAndonuts]

I'm a black male and definitely confused. But in my case, it's because I've spent my whole life liking girls, but recently started finding guys attractive as well. I realized that I always had that curiosity, but always held myself back. If I saw an attractive guy, I'd hold myself back and try not to look at him for very long or make up reasonable excuses why I found him attractive like "I'm just admiring the hard work he put on his body and wish I looked like that." But not anymore. If I see a guy and my gut reaction is "He's hot." then yes, he is hot and I'm gonna take a moment to ogle him. I might be bisexual, but because I'm still a virgin and haven't had the experience, it's hard for me to tell for sure what I like. I could be gay and all the female attraction was just from societal pressure to like girls because I'm a guy. Or I could be straight and the male attraction was just a moment of curiosity. Perhaps I WAS just "admiring their hard work". I don't know. But if I was simply a gay man who found guys attractive, did not find women attractive, and had healthy relationships with other men, I definitely wouldn't say I was confused. Hell, I'd prefer that. At least I'd know exactly what I wanted.