02-01-2014, 07:22 PM
Eth, if you're afraid of someone finding you, just take down your picture. When you're vulnerable and need support, alienating yourself is a choice that has better alternatives.
It is very difficult for some people to come out. I was 'ready' for several years before I did, and I'm not so conceited to not think I'd still be 'in the closet' without the support of several friends and my boyfriend.
When I did come out, I set a deadline, and tried everyday. Hours of pacing, thinking, finally just said the words and after that there was no taking them back.
In the meantime, hopefully you stay with some people that understand
It is very difficult for some people to come out. I was 'ready' for several years before I did, and I'm not so conceited to not think I'd still be 'in the closet' without the support of several friends and my boyfriend.
When I did come out, I set a deadline, and tried everyday. Hours of pacing, thinking, finally just said the words and after that there was no taking them back.
In the meantime, hopefully you stay with some people that understand
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