is this normal

[Vigilias]

Hmmmm...

I'm not medically qualified, but I think this may need some intervention from someone who is.

Maybe you just need more fibre in your diet or you may subconsciously make your body hang on to what it's trying to lose just in case it hurts, so the stool becomes becomes bigger/harder/more impacted and then when you do go, it feels like you're passing something the size of Japan!

Try a little, and I do mean a little, laxative.

Also, when you're having anal sex, does he simply go for it or does he spend time relaxing things down there with finger action? Sphincters are rings of muscle designed to keep things in or out and to gradually relax and open gently. You don't pound at the front door with a battering ram, you knock and wait for it to be opened - see where I'm going on this?

Try those suggestions and if they don't work see a health professional.

Good luck!