is this normal

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I only hurt one time but that was just one night and in the morning I was fine. Maybe you need a more sensitive lover who is as aware of your body as he is his own, i think vigilias summed it up " you dont pound at the door with a battering ram" This is just not right. But what do some guys care! They dont! You shouldnt have to tell them this, they should just know. Its not always an age thing either and straight type men are the worst. I wasted 2 years of life with a selfish lover before i met someone who was so more sensitive