02-19-2014, 10:42 PM
He is definitely bi, but perhaps only interested in a heteosexual relationship.
It's been many years, and perhaps his views have changed on what he wants in life. It is very possible that mutual masturbation is not fulfilling to him any more, and so not what he wants. Possibly he is interested in relationships, wants a commitment, or even only wants to date women. He may even have feelings for you, and not want to put himself into a superficial relationship that's only going to hurt him. I really can't know.
He's basically said no, or at least strongly implied it, which is often the same thing. Sometimes people say what they mean and mean what they say; and what he meant I think is no.
It's been many years, and perhaps his views have changed on what he wants in life. It is very possible that mutual masturbation is not fulfilling to him any more, and so not what he wants. Possibly he is interested in relationships, wants a commitment, or even only wants to date women. He may even have feelings for you, and not want to put himself into a superficial relationship that's only going to hurt him. I really can't know.
He's basically said no, or at least strongly implied it, which is often the same thing. Sometimes people say what they mean and mean what they say; and what he meant I think is no.
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