03-05-2014, 12:19 PM
My 84 year old, straight lady friend who has never used a computer, doesn't have a cell phone, was asking me about 'grounder' which once I corrected her that is Grind'r started a very long, and very uncomfortable conversation.
Anyways, she knew it wasn't used for real 'dating' that its used for 'dalliances' - Well that's the word I used, she used the term 'fuck around?' (I said the conversation was uncomfortable didn't I?)
Apparently, every old person in this halfway house to the nursing home (assisted living) - Imagine people around age 75-Death's Door Step know about 'grounder' which we all call Grind'r and what it is used for. And none use computer technology (that I'm aware of, but hey I already had one uncomfortable conversation there, I'm not aiming two any time soon).
IF they all know what Grind'r is about, then what is his excuse to be on Grind'r to learn about what 'the scene' really mean?
Consider this. He has repressed his sexual urges for 10+ years.
Obviously there is only one thing on his mind right now.
Concentrate on the issue at hand, look at it closely.
Knowing what grind'r is, you know what its about.
If it helps, sometimes the language people speak isn't so much side to side, but up an down.
You got that feeling as well.... Listen to your gut, you have all the information there. Perhaps you need to step back and look at what is going on to see that his interest is as plain and obvious as I wrote just a moment ago.
Anyways, she knew it wasn't used for real 'dating' that its used for 'dalliances' - Well that's the word I used, she used the term 'fuck around?' (I said the conversation was uncomfortable didn't I?)
Apparently, every old person in this halfway house to the nursing home (assisted living) - Imagine people around age 75-Death's Door Step know about 'grounder' which we all call Grind'r and what it is used for. And none use computer technology (that I'm aware of, but hey I already had one uncomfortable conversation there, I'm not aiming two any time soon).
IF they all know what Grind'r is about, then what is his excuse to be on Grind'r to learn about what 'the scene' really mean?
Consider this. He has repressed his sexual urges for 10+ years.
Obviously there is only one thing on his mind right now.
Concentrate on the issue at hand, look at it closely.
Knowing what grind'r is, you know what its about.
If it helps, sometimes the language people speak isn't so much side to side, but up an down.
You got that feeling as well.... Listen to your gut, you have all the information there. Perhaps you need to step back and look at what is going on to see that his interest is as plain and obvious as I wrote just a moment ago.
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