How would you...?

[Phil]

Looks like the sit has been resolved to your liking.

I would agree with ending all unless you are comfortable to continue reaching for a weapon... I guess I would do the same. Cant stand violence & cant really imagine what you went thru but WoW...

Best of luck to the other guy... if he ever seeks advice I would tell him to leave his family.

Thanx dood! i actually made my decision before postin....:redface: was a case of wantin reassurance that i didn't just look after my own benifits and screw him over! I've never been in the situ to want or need a weapon to insure my saftey and violence is summit i see as totally uneeded but the situation was outta my control and that was my only option. Doods still livin at home and is (for reasons unkown to me real close to his family) as much as i think their f*ckin assholes i couldn't be the cause of messin that up

Whilst I have also come to this thread a little late-in-the-day to be useful, as sox-and-the-city has already given you some very good advice indeed, I shall add my two penneth for the record ... mile:.

... I can't help but agree as well to be honest ... there ought to be no reason AT all for people to have recourse to violence simply because they have an issue with a person's race, colour, creed, sexuality or anything else like that ... it's just so wrong !

As for whether to drop your mate or not, that's a decision I cannot advise you on - it's too subjective for me ... I think it would (as fjp999 has said) be perhaps in his best interests to distance himself from a world so restrictive and hate-filled, as that is definitely counterproductive to his future happiness ... but that's his lookout, not yours ...

I certainly don't see anything wrong with backing away from this situation, as it's unhealthy and, to be blunt, not something that you should have to put up with !!

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

Dood you hit the nail on the head! and it weren't too late like everyone i suppose i like to think i'd do the honourable thing...but at the end of the day every situations different ....i totally believe i ended things cause i know how it will end up for him...i got my responsibilities etc in hand so at the end of the day it woulda been summit that i coulda went along with and enjoyed (apart from the beatin part lol) i know i ramblin now but :redface:.....dood was experimentin ...when he looks back now he gonna think yep when things go bad a guys gonna walk away from it ....Anyhoo its done now and i'll live....

Hey Phil,

Yeah, think you made the right decision! You want to keep your good looks!

As Bo Jacko would say... Shamon MF... I'm a lover not a fighter! heehee :biggrin:

Good looks i keep em' upstairs in a box...bring em' out at xmas and stuff! Soooo loved Bo Jacko btw