06-02-2014, 06:45 AM
yourname Wrote:Well, there were no intentions of hurt feelings from me. I always assume that someone "playing that game" is capable of dealing with someone dealing in kind.
My comments were quite tame and playful.......and in response to someone's narcissism that was so overt that I could only think it a joke, lol.
I am sorry that happened. I think the intention of that feature was to help self moderate the site but like everything it also can be abused.
I have never felt the need to use it so I am not even sure how it works...but if it matters I think you add a lot to this site and probably any site you are at and an infraction was silly.
The best advice I ever got was from a friend of mine who had the nerve to tell me the truth when I was throwing a pity party for myself...I will love him for that until the day I die (RIP Billy)....it was hard to hear.... but he saved my life.....
Sometimes the things we don't want to hear are exactly the things we need to hear.