06-03-2014, 07:52 PM
Iceblink Wrote:Sorry. Damn, men can be jerks. And this really is a man thing, because from both gay men and straight women, you often hear this kind of story happening to them and although straight women once in a while do the same thing to a man, it is much more rare that your hear of it happening.
{{Hugs}} Evito.
Sorry Evito - but welcome to the Big Boys Club.
Truth is, Human Emotions don't fit into a pre-written script.
They occur as they MUST - like it or not.
TRUST Me on THIS Dude - You DO NOT want someone to stay with You because it is the "right thing to do."
You want - and most likely DESERVE - someone who will stay with You when all signs scream NO, and He STILL says, "No way am I leaving..."
His journey is ultimately different than Yours.
You shared part of it.
Be grateful and hold on to MANY good times.
And KNOW that as good as THAT was - even BETTER is ahead for You...and Him.
Love is Eternal - and in Eternity there is a LOT of room. Our capacity for LIFE is much larger than We often give Ourselves credit for.
Be gentle with Yourself.
Be strong and be safe and don't be afraid to start again.
We are, if nothing else, a resilient species.
I will bet that Your ride hasn't even really started yet - don't get off now!!!