10-26-2008, 11:30 PM
Hiya,
Leaving this guy m,aybe is the right option but yet again maybe isnt... Whats your heart say?? In my relationship i said to my boyfriend... "I got one ground rule" - Your my partner not my possession. Now for the next bit.. In every relationship you do tend to find that someone may or may have doubts in straying off for like a taster... However if your able to forgive your boyfriend then it is worth keeping the relationship as he may have had an urge i mean us men in general we see something we like it takes our fancy and makes us more needing the experience with that guy..
Another option to maybe cope with this is an "open relationship" Now this doesnt work with everyone but if you guys did set to go ahead with it or even try it you both need to come to an agreement.. (Me and my boyfriend are not in an open relationship but used to be and it didnt work for us..) If you guys had an agreement i wouldnt recommend however it be done as like a three way party thing.. Reason being is that you would find one would receive less attention than the other making things aqward in any relationship..
The best thing you can do babes is talk to him about this and plan where your going to go from here onwards.. Maybe suggest a bit of role play in ya relationship or something to curb his sex drive and whatnot.. I have got a higher drive on sex than my boyfriend but usually a course of masturbation curbs it.. Maybe suggest that to your partner it may curb his and his not causing you any offence other than trying to sleep on a self motivated earthquaked bed
Take care and kindest regards... Hope you guys can repair the damage and pull through together..
Zeon x
Leaving this guy m,aybe is the right option but yet again maybe isnt... Whats your heart say?? In my relationship i said to my boyfriend... "I got one ground rule" - Your my partner not my possession. Now for the next bit.. In every relationship you do tend to find that someone may or may have doubts in straying off for like a taster... However if your able to forgive your boyfriend then it is worth keeping the relationship as he may have had an urge i mean us men in general we see something we like it takes our fancy and makes us more needing the experience with that guy..
Another option to maybe cope with this is an "open relationship" Now this doesnt work with everyone but if you guys did set to go ahead with it or even try it you both need to come to an agreement.. (Me and my boyfriend are not in an open relationship but used to be and it didnt work for us..) If you guys had an agreement i wouldnt recommend however it be done as like a three way party thing.. Reason being is that you would find one would receive less attention than the other making things aqward in any relationship..
The best thing you can do babes is talk to him about this and plan where your going to go from here onwards.. Maybe suggest a bit of role play in ya relationship or something to curb his sex drive and whatnot.. I have got a higher drive on sex than my boyfriend but usually a course of masturbation curbs it.. Maybe suggest that to your partner it may curb his and his not causing you any offence other than trying to sleep on a self motivated earthquaked bed
Take care and kindest regards... Hope you guys can repair the damage and pull through together..
Zeon x
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