Someone help please!

[50Plus]

Advice: do not ever have a regret in life. I am reminded what my first boss said: I only regret what I have not done.

You love your girlfriend and want to marry her. You really like this guy and want to date him.

On the surface they appear to be opposite desires. But are they really? Some questions:

Do you only want him for what she cannot bring to your relationship?

Do you only want her because that is what society has deemed as 'normal'?

Have you talked with her about your feelings for guys?

Have you talked with yourself about whether you are gay?

How long have you been with her?

How long have you been with him?

Can you still be friends with her, if you are with him?

Can you be friends with him, if you are with her?

Have you considered an open relationship where you get to have her and him? You described two types of relationships (him OR her), there is at least a third type (him AND her) and likely more.

No one will be able to tell you what to do. It is your life. But ask the questions of yourself and of those who are special in your life.