Someone help please!

[Virge]

jayjay I read your words once and thought about them for a bit... and had a coincidental reminder from from my room mate about how much more important what is not said is often when compared to what is said... So when I came back and read what you'd written a 2nd time my brain was tweeked to notice what wasn't said and it's all things most letters like yours include.

You didn't mention the gay porn you've been watching or how long you've been watching it.

You didn't mention what web site you met this guy on or how long the two of you were friendly there before having a real life meeting... or any other guys you may have met first.

I'm not trying to put you on the spot. You most likely didn't make these omissions deliberately and they're not really important other than they do help put things into a more complete context.