07-24-2014, 04:14 AM
btw, welcome to GS dude.
while some of the things we've said in this thread may seem a bit harsh, it's just a matter of honesty and reality to really try to help you realize things you may not have thought to consider.
We really do genuinely want to help you and hope you come clean to everyone about everything and make a good, clear decision for yourself above all else but secondly for her if you really do love her.
Also agree with Twist and want to echo that point, let her choose for herself, your only obligation is to be honest with her and apologize for not being honest before it got to this point.
while some of the things we've said in this thread may seem a bit harsh, it's just a matter of honesty and reality to really try to help you realize things you may not have thought to consider.
We really do genuinely want to help you and hope you come clean to everyone about everything and make a good, clear decision for yourself above all else but secondly for her if you really do love her.
Also agree with Twist and want to echo that point, let her choose for herself, your only obligation is to be honest with her and apologize for not being honest before it got to this point.