08-02-2014, 11:27 AM
To be honest, setting all judgments aside, this is simply not something you can rush.
You ended up liking swinging the other way, but here you are telling us "regardless" of how you found the gay experience, you're still proposing to her shortly because at least then you'd know how you felt either way. Do you honestly think that's a good idea? The most logical path to take would be to take a break BOTH from your gf and the guy. Take some time to get to know yourself better. Don't rush into a decision that involves the rest of your life AND the feelings of other people.
You say you're "scared" because you don't want to lose the perfect girl and you don't want to let go of a guy who seems like a great match for you. That's all about you, though. What about the girl? What happens if you stay with her and you eventually cheat on her (not like you haven't already, hehe) because you realize later on in life you're simply not happy? That's going to take a huge toll on her (not to mention your future kids if it goes that far). What about the guy? Do you think it's fair that you're putting him in a rather messy situation? I realize he knows about the situation, but you're the catalyst in all of this.
You ended up liking swinging the other way, but here you are telling us "regardless" of how you found the gay experience, you're still proposing to her shortly because at least then you'd know how you felt either way. Do you honestly think that's a good idea? The most logical path to take would be to take a break BOTH from your gf and the guy. Take some time to get to know yourself better. Don't rush into a decision that involves the rest of your life AND the feelings of other people.
You say you're "scared" because you don't want to lose the perfect girl and you don't want to let go of a guy who seems like a great match for you. That's all about you, though. What about the girl? What happens if you stay with her and you eventually cheat on her (not like you haven't already, hehe) because you realize later on in life you're simply not happy? That's going to take a huge toll on her (not to mention your future kids if it goes that far). What about the guy? Do you think it's fair that you're putting him in a rather messy situation? I realize he knows about the situation, but you're the catalyst in all of this.
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