07-26-2014, 02:56 AM
What uneunsae says is very true. Have you dated an older man, or just had sex with them? There is a difference and this could be a cause for the problem.
You said "I feel like ive already missed out on a lot of life". You have not. You have just started living. Is there some guilt in that the 'casual sex' is wasting time and not resulting in a long term relationship?
Saying "Please no condescending comments" on a public forum? Really? You will get comments, condescending and otherwise. Read them. All of them. There will be nuggets of information and help in each and everyone.
You said "I feel like ive already missed out on a lot of life". You have not. You have just started living. Is there some guilt in that the 'casual sex' is wasting time and not resulting in a long term relationship?
Saying "Please no condescending comments" on a public forum? Really? You will get comments, condescending and otherwise. Read them. All of them. There will be nuggets of information and help in each and everyone.