Am I really gay?

[Cuddly]

Got it, being gay isn't a choice, but wondering if being attracted to femininity made you any less gay since that is tied to womanliness. I'm talking about males here.

Since I'm a man of labels, I am the PERFECT guy to answer this question for you.
Let me stop your worries right now.

If you like dick, you're gay.
If you like pussy, you're straight.
The above assumes you're a guy, the reverse is true if you're a woman.