Become creepy stalker or let go of potential something?

[TwisttheLeaf]

I guess most people would advise against what I plan to do and ask me to stay away or move on and let him go. Anybody with different perspective than that?

Btw.... this above? Makes it look like you're digging for any excuses you can find to reason out in your mind that it's okay to do what you've done and are considering.