08-01-2014, 07:26 PM
Adam Wrote:OK, I get your relationship with your roommate. What I asked you, is why is that so incomprehensible in the "gay world"?
In a single word................. LABELS.
Everyone is OCD about making everything and everyone they encounter fit into a pre-existing label in order to make it comprehensible.
So when they meet up with someone or something that does not fit into their pre-existing labels they squeeze, push, fold and cram it into a label they like rather than ever consider
"Are my labels all wrong?"
read the things said in that thread and you'll see a group effort to do what I just described above.
I can promise you life is much more fun if you live it without having to label everything and everyone.