attractions

[Adam]

In a single word................. LABELS.

Everyone is OCD about making everything and everyone they encounter fit into a pre-existing label in order to make it comprehensible.
So when they meet up with someone or something that does not fit into their pre-existing labels they squeeze, push, fold and cram it into a label they like rather than ever consider

"Are my labels all wrong?"

read the things said in that thread and you'll see a group effort to do what I just described above.

I can promise you life is much more fun if you live it without having to label everything and everyone.

I totally completely entirely agree about labels. What I want to know is, why are you specifying that it's incomprehensible in the GAY world. Isn't it also (and maybe more so)
incomprehensible in the straight world?