08-01-2014, 04:31 AM
Me and my lover have been major disappointments to some of the females we know ...I think they are expecting Will and/or Jack...
The things that stand out the most over the course of my life....
I'm not trying to be funny when I say this ...nor am I trying to be sarcastic...but my answer when someone asks me how they look or what something looks like on them or what their hair looks like is simple...I don't care and the question annoys me. It took me years to get to this point.....
If I like you I think you look great and I don't give a fuck if you are 500 pounds with pimples or a supermodel...I still think you look great
..If I hate you...you look ugly...if I don't know you...I don't care to even think about it....
The way I see things is how I feel about them and that is why when anyone tries to define beauty for me they will piss me off...I don't know why that is so hard for most people to understand
I cured my friend Linda when I was younger when she didn't want to accept my honest response so when she dragged me to the mall and wanted my opinion I told her she looked fat in everything she tried on...it worked....she never wanted me to go shopping again...
I have only asked someone ONCE how I looked...when I went to my brother's funeral...because I was nervous. I think it is silly to ask people how you look because I don't see why it matters what anyone else thinks.....I also think it is silly to say "thank you" when someone compliments you on your appearance. I don't understand the difference between saying you are good looking or ugly based solely on your physical appearance as both are subjective opinions that have nothing at all to do with anything IMO
I had to either pretend to go along with what everyone else says or just be content to exist in left field somewhere...I used to sometimes think maybe I wasn't really gay because of the way people expect you to behave and think about appearances but I finally decided I was gay....I was just from another planet.
The things that stand out the most over the course of my life....
I'm not trying to be funny when I say this ...nor am I trying to be sarcastic...but my answer when someone asks me how they look or what something looks like on them or what their hair looks like is simple...I don't care and the question annoys me. It took me years to get to this point.....
If I like you I think you look great and I don't give a fuck if you are 500 pounds with pimples or a supermodel...I still think you look great
..If I hate you...you look ugly...if I don't know you...I don't care to even think about it....
The way I see things is how I feel about them and that is why when anyone tries to define beauty for me they will piss me off...I don't know why that is so hard for most people to understand
I cured my friend Linda when I was younger when she didn't want to accept my honest response so when she dragged me to the mall and wanted my opinion I told her she looked fat in everything she tried on...it worked....she never wanted me to go shopping again...
I have only asked someone ONCE how I looked...when I went to my brother's funeral...because I was nervous. I think it is silly to ask people how you look because I don't see why it matters what anyone else thinks.....I also think it is silly to say "thank you" when someone compliments you on your appearance. I don't understand the difference between saying you are good looking or ugly based solely on your physical appearance as both are subjective opinions that have nothing at all to do with anything IMO
I had to either pretend to go along with what everyone else says or just be content to exist in left field somewhere...I used to sometimes think maybe I wasn't really gay because of the way people expect you to behave and think about appearances but I finally decided I was gay....I was just from another planet.
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