08-01-2014, 05:04 AM
Sadly, a lot of this is very familiar. I've been ranked out by a few women who insist that if it were not for me, they could get my BF to be with them. The kind of myths that women perpetuate about cops are as bizarre as some of the gay myths.
And the myth that all gay guys look a certain way - I used to get annoyed when straights told me, 'But you don't look gay'...but I've stopped demanding that they tell me what gay looks like and just tell them that I have a good makeup artist.
But the one that annoys me the most is the one Pix mentioned, about gays not wanting kids and not wanting others to have them. My friend and his husband used surrogates and have 2 biological children. My BF and I have custody of his 3 year old nephew and are working on a permanent adoption. And no, ugliest myth/slur of all, we are not raising the boys to be little faggots
And the myth that all gay guys look a certain way - I used to get annoyed when straights told me, 'But you don't look gay'...but I've stopped demanding that they tell me what gay looks like and just tell them that I have a good makeup artist.
But the one that annoys me the most is the one Pix mentioned, about gays not wanting kids and not wanting others to have them. My friend and his husband used surrogates and have 2 biological children. My BF and I have custody of his 3 year old nephew and are working on a permanent adoption. And no, ugliest myth/slur of all, we are not raising the boys to be little faggots