Gay Myths

[Borg69]

I heard that one a lot, too. It always perplexed me because people would say it even knowing full well that my dad was in the picture, and he and my mom are still married today. (Unlike the huge majority of my friends, including all of my straight friends.)

The first thing my mom did when I came out to her was to run and tell my biological dad thinking I was gay because of their early divorce and the lack of a full time father figure in my life and thinking if he was suddenly thrust back in my life I'd somehow get 'cured'. Ugh.