the beginnings

[DawnArmy]

Hmmm am I the only one who's disturbed at the idea of a grown man rubbing on a six year old?

No offense, man, but though you might have been too young to realize it was sexual or wrong...your mother's friend was -not- and what he did, in my opinion went way, way, way beyond the scope of okay or right or moral.

Nah, I don't really think that there's something wrong here. In Asia culture, pretty much everywhere in Asia, baby boys are more favorable (it's about genetic inheritance or something). If a family has a boy, they will treat him as if he were treasure. Gently touching his genital is quite common. And in fact, if I remember right, I saw it even in a movie.

However though, things like pedophile just creeps people out. I heard that lots of Vietnamese when they come here, they are really disappointed for not being allowed to touch their own son's genital. Some even have to go to court for that.

This only happens to boys; they never touch their daughter's genital. Just want to emphasize HOW MUCH FAVORITISM ASIAN PLACE TOWARD BOYS OVER GIRLS.

As for me, I do think baby boys are cute, including their genitals, but I never have the need to touch them. I don't have that kind of favoritism, but I always find that boys are cuter, more playful, and wear cuter clothing than girls.

On a side note, I too was surprised when I first read an adult rubbing a child in this US culture. Isn't that act illegal here!