the beginnings

[meridannight]

You were asking for first experiences, the beginnings of ones travels, were you not?

Not all such experiences are positive. Gideon's happens to be negative.

please point me to the post where Gideon describes his experience of discovering his sexuality. he only posted his judgment on one experience in my life. how is that describing his own beginnings?

he hasn't in fact said anything about his discovery of his sexuality. he's only mentioned he was molested, but i didn't assume from that fact that that influenced his sexuality.

Gideon has posted altogether two posts in here. none speak anything about the discovery of his sexuality and/or coming to terms with it.

I'm not sure I feel okay with someone saying (in summary) "your experience doesn't belong here, fuck off" in a thread ASKING for experiences and reactions.

what the hell are you talking about?

i told him nicely not to derail the thread with continuing focusing on one experience in MY post. and misreading it in the process. i told him to let that incident in my life go. i didn't tell him his experience doesn't belong here.

please point me to my post where i told him to fuck off and that his experiences don't belong here. i will report myself on that if i did that.

i get it you are standing up for your boyfriend but you are imagining things.

I understand you may not like his reaction, but it was honest. I don't see how it -doesn't- belong here with the experiences and reactions of everyone else, regardless of the fact his was a negative one.

what negative reaction exactly? all he did was read that a guy touched me when i was a kid (which i started by the way). then he chimed in that what my mom's friend did was wrong.

big news -- i already know the moral implication of his actions. i wasn't asking whether my mom's friend acted right or wrong. i wasn't asking him to continue to assert that and i see that as throwing this thread on a completely different track that belongs in another thread. my experience was not about molestation. that's the only thing i was trying to make him see. if Gideon's was he is welcome to actually post about his experience not hint at it in passing. i'd be happy to read about it. so far, he hasn't said anything about his experiences.

Please remember to be -kind- to others, even those you might not agree with.

show me a post where i was not kind. i responded nicely to him from the start. if he read more to it than what was there then that's not my doing.

i've stated my responses pretty clearly and i was nice. you haven't seen me not be nice yet.

stop throwing around that you've offended me or reacted negatively to something i've said. i haven't seen any offense or negative reactions directed my way. i've only seen going on about one single thing in a loop, and probably seeing it all wrong because your own experiences color it something different.