09-19-2014, 09:30 PM
I think that you should tell him that you will revisit this when he has gotten a job and has the money to take care of it.
At some point you may have to accept a pet if you want to stay in the relationship but being able to take care if it is an important part of owning a pet.....and he cannot expect you to do that for him.
In the end.....relationships are all about compromise....and sometimes doing things you never really wanted to do...
My straight friend always says HAPPY WIFE...HAPPY LIFE...there is a lot of wisdom there.....
At some point you may have to accept a pet if you want to stay in the relationship but being able to take care if it is an important part of owning a pet.....and he cannot expect you to do that for him.
In the end.....relationships are all about compromise....and sometimes doing things you never really wanted to do...
My straight friend always says HAPPY WIFE...HAPPY LIFE...there is a lot of wisdom there.....