09-21-2014, 08:18 PM
Anonymous Wrote:I can update this situation a bit. The cat is here, like my boyfriend said. However it seems to be paying more attention to be than my boyfriend. We think it's strange, because my boyfriend is the one who does all the feeding and petting and everything. I don't have any specific feelings to this animal however it keeps following me around everywhere. Needless to say that my boyfriend is not happy about it.
The problem could be that you are ignoring the cat, and your boyfriend is showering attention to it.
Cats don't like to be stared at, if you stare at a cat, it will turn away before you do. Your boyfriend is trying to bond with the cat, but because you are not looking at it, it's going directly to you.
Start to give the cat some attention, and tell your boyfriend to pull some of the attention back, and that may help.