My boyfriend, me and a cat.

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I can update this situation a bit. The cat is here, like my boyfriend said. However it seems to be paying more attention to be than my boyfriend. We think it's strange, because my boyfriend is the one who does all the feeding and petting and everything. I don't have any specific feelings to this animal however it keeps following me around everywhere. Needless to say that my boyfriend is not happy about it.

Before my advice in this situation was to not allow an animal into your home at this time under your current circumstances. Now things have changed. For whatever reason, this cat is your home and now you have to do everything you can to find some compassion, and I know from your posts here that compassion might be something very difficult for you. In fact, none of know who you are here, but I now think it is a good thing you did this thread anonymously, because this thread does not portray you in a good light. Even if it wasn't by your choice, you must do whatever it takes to make sure this animal is taken care of and happy. You cannot return this creature to a life in sa mall box at a shelter. Do what you have to. A little compassion does not hurt and it might be a good thing for you.

With your continued lack of compassion and stubbornness, I am sensing this is really not about this cat, but is some issues you have with your boyfriend and him not having a job and not contributing to the household. Deal with that real issue, because this cat should not have to suffer because of that issue.

Sorry for the anger in this reply, but your attitude in this is starting to piss me off because there is now a living creature involved and it is not fair to that creature. Like it or not, no matter how this cat came into your household, it is there and so find a little understanding and kindness. Do what it takes to make this right under the circumstances you are now in.